This is one of those blog posts that is going to enter very weird territory before it’s finished… But then that’s what happens when people have conversations when neither one of them is entirely awake.
On the subject of bomb warnings…
If you grew up in England during a particular time, you might have lived with the potential threat of bombs going off in some of the big cities. If that’s the case, then you may have seen posters similar to this one in any number of places.
I remember seeing any number of posters reminding people to keep their eyes open for packages, suitcases, bags, or other unattended. They were a constant reminder that there was always the potential for one of those items to be a bomb. Some went so far as to remind you not to approach the item, but contact the police instead.
Warnings turn to humor…
After a while, I started seeing graffiti that took the warning, and added humor. But not before I’d already had the conversation with some friends in the early hours of the morning…
Now this was before the internet had become an invasive part of our lives. It was also way before people turned such things into viral memes, that would spread like wildfire.
And then turn into the unexpectedly bizarre…
Now my wife is very much aware of these conversations, and just how strange my mind is at times. But last night, we were talking about something (I can’t for the life of me remember what), but I turned to her and said “Be alert”, and she came back with a reply that left me speechless and laughing, because it was so unexpected.
I jumped out of bed, wrote it down in my journal, with the lights off, in the dark, and could still somehow read it this morning. So I couldn’t help but turn it into a poster. And for what it’s worth “I’m sorry” and “You’re Welcome”
Do you have any bizzare late night (or any other time) conversations you want to share?
Feel free to drop them in the comments below and I’ll share the best responses in a future post!
Before I answer that question, I should answer another one:
What IS Bullet Journal?
Simply put, it’s a process for getting thoughts out of your head and onto paper through a system called rapid logging. It was developed by Ryder Carroll back in 2013, has been the subject of 900,000+ Instagram tags and 680,000+ YouTube videos, and has a following of over 92,000 on Facebook.
And if that wasn’t enough:
- the Quick Guide for this system has been translated into 25 languages
- There is a dedicated app to help Bullet Journal users
- and a journal format specifically designed for this system.
Oh, and the Bullet Journal website (www.bulletjournal.com) just turned four years old.
Rapid logging consists of four elements
- Page numbers
- Short sentences
- Bullets & Signifiers
Topics allow you to utilize individual pages for particular uses. In my case, that’s my:
- yearly/monthly/weekly planners
- my daily to-do/notes lists
- lists of websites I need to keep handy
- event planning
- reading lists
- notes on things I’ve read/watched that I need to reference from time-to-time
- blog/website planning
- story writing/editing/promotion plans
Page numbers are used to index all of those topics, so you can find them easily.
Short sentences make it quicker and easier to get your thoughts on paper, and prevent the entire process from becoming a chore. They’re intended to act as a quick reminder, more than a detailed description. But if you need to provide more details, just start a new page, give it a topic header, and put a reference to that page alongside the short sentence, and your index.
Bullets encourage you to keep sentences short, since that’s exactly what bullets are intended for, and it’s pretty instinctive to use. Different bullets represent tasks, events, appointments, and notes. Add a signifier alongside that bullet and you can mark it as urgent, a deadline, something you want to investigate more later, and so on…
Bullet Journal 101
Go check out the other resources out there, but if you’re easily distracted don’t spend too long looking. There is a vast number of Instagram, Pinterest, YouTube, blog entries, and more waiting for the unwary.
I’ve been using this system since January, and my personal advice, is to stick to the basics while you learn the system. Then start customizing your bullet journals to fit your needs, as you discover them. I’ve developed a customer weekly layout that tracks my work hours, my household chores, writing/editing, blogging and book promotion tasks, which I’ve included in the pictures below.
Here’s how my Bullet Journal looks:
- Markings® by C.R. Gibson – Jumbo Black Leatherette Journal – Ruled, 7″ x 9″
- Pentel EnerGel Liquid Gel Ink Pens 0.7mm ball (green, blue, red & black
- I have a preference for the 0.5mm ball, but this (sadly) has been discontinued
- 12 inch Ruler (inch & centimeter markings)
- Post-it® Tabs, 1 inch Lined, Green, Blue, Red, 12/Color, 36 Tabs/Dispenser
I’m not normally one to jump on the news, and comment on it openly. Anyone who follows my Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or other social media accounts will see that they remain clear of such things, for the most part. However, this last week has seen the second terror attack on London, in recent months, and I can’t help reflecting on how it affects people.
My heart and prayers go out to the friends, families, and victims of those who have been affected by these blatant acts of terrorism. Even though many of those affected by the attacks grew up with IRA activities as a fact of life, these recent attacks will leave physical and emotional scars that are hard to hide.
For my part, I’m here in Alaska watching the news very closely, and checking in with friends and family back in England whenever I can. Having been born British, and leaving everyone behind when I came to Alaska to marry an American, I can’t help but be concerned by the things I see in the news. And, so far this year, we’ve seen three major attacks…
Attack #1 – March 22nd 2017
- Location: Westminster, London
- Casualties: 50 people were injured, and 6 killed
- A lone driver mounts the curb on Westminster Bridge, and drove through the crowd, then continued on toward Parliament before abandoning the vehicle and attacking people with a knife. He was shot dead by police less than 90 seconds after the attack started.
Attack #2 – May 22nd 2017
- Location: Manchester Arena, Manchester
- Casualties: 116 people were injured, and 22 killed
- Suicide bomber detonated a home-made bomb in the foyer as fans were leaving a concert.
Attack #3 – 3rd June 2017
- Location: London Bridge & Borough Market, London
- Casualties: 48 people were injured, and 7 killed
- A white van drove into pedestrians on London Bridge before three attackers got out of the vehicle and ran into Borough Market, where they stabbed several people, before escaping back into the street where all three were shot dead by police.
Investigations Are Ongoing…
That’s three major attacks in four months, and police are still investigating each of the incidents thoroughly. To date several arrests have been made in connection with the attacks, and time will tell how things move forward from here.
But there’s one thing I know for a fact…
Despite these attacks, it’s just going to bring people closer together…
How Do I Know This?
- London, and other parts of the UK are no strangers to terrorist attacks, and bombings
- During World War 2, German bombs fell on London, and other parts of the country on a regular basis.
- Bombers flew over the cities and dropped tons of bombs in lightning raids
- the dreaded V-1 flying bombs (aka the buzz bomb or doodlebug) which dropped out of the sky when their noisy motors ran out of fuel
- the V-2 missile was the first true long range guided ballistic missile
- When I was growing up, attacks by the IRA (and assorted splinter groups) were a fact of. Bombs went off, people were attacked, and attempts were made to bring down Canary Wharf.
What Happened As A Result?
During the war, and the terror attacks that came later, people refused to let those responsible change their lives more than necessary. During the war, they banded together in bomb shelters, and told stories to keep each other company and pass the time.
When I was growing up, I didn’t let the possibility of an IRA attack deter me from going into the city of London. Even in my mid-teens I’d go into the city on my own to visit museums, stores or the libraries. Sure, I was aware of the possibility of an attack happening, but even then I believed that if we let terrorists dictate our choices, then they had achieved their goals. And I wasn’t going to let that happen, but I did watch out of suspicious packages and activities just in case.
And It’s Happening Again!
In all of the cases above, including the attacks that took place this year, it brought people together.
Now this is the important take-away from all of this, and does nothing to detract from the horrors that people went through. But, people came together to help each other.
- They came together to help the police and emergency services deal with the situations.
- Photos and video have been given up for evidence willingly.
- Witnesses and victims alike have given statements
- Investigations have been started, and further arrests made in connection with the events.
- Common people have proved to be heroes
But most importantly, they have stepped up, and proved that no matter who claims responsibility for the attacks, Brits are nothing if not stubborn, resilient, and will not bow down to terrorists.
For my part, I’m proud to have been born British!
“Teacher reveals odd tactic to prevent bullying – and it leaves all her students in tears.”
That’s how this video was posted to me over on Facebook, and I’m not normally one to jump on my soap-box. But, there are some videos that I feel really need to be shared, and this is one of them. This video shows just how damaging bullying can be, in a way that those of us who have experienced it can appreciate.
Unfortunately, while this video shows the effects of bullying, it doesn’t educate people on how to deal with the being bullied, or how to handle the bullies themselves. There are so many types of bullying that educating people on how to deal with it will take a lot more than a two minute video.
My Personal Experience Of Bullying
I personally experienced several years of bullying during my schooling, and the schools seemed to consider me to be the problem. I was shy, quiet, and a bit of a book-worm (go figure). Because I ‘allowed’ the bullying to happen by not ‘fighting back’, I was sent to the school counselor for therapy.
Now I’ve never been a violent person, so I wasn’t happy with the idea that I should hit back, and they decided to try and help with my ‘anger management issues’. Apparently throwing a rag around the room was going to help me de-stress, and reduce my levels of anger. They made one mistake… Sure, I was stressed, but I wasn’t angry. Okay, they made TWO mistakes. They left the windows open, and the rag went out on almost as soon as I had it in my hand.
It took several years for me to really break out of the shell I built around myself, and I still have days when I find myself thinking about those years. But, love, care, friendships, and a lot of understanding have helped make things a lot easier to deal with.
Some Thoughts On Bullying
The whole bullying issue has really struck a nerve with me. It affects so many different types of people at a vital time in their lives.
– Kenny Wormwald
We focus so much on our differences, and that is creating, I think, a lot of chaos and negativity and bullying in the world. And I think if everybody focused on what we all have in common – which is – we all want to be happy.
– Ellen DeGeneres
Children should always be brave and do something about bullying. It’s not okay to stand by and let it happen. Bullies thrive off secrecy. Children should tell someone if they see someone being bullied.
– Imelda Staunton
Here’s My Biggest Hope In Sharing This…
I hope that sharing this video and my personal experiences keeps the conversations about bullying going, and helps at least one person.
Let’s help reduce the instances of bullying, wherever they occur. It’s a problem that extends outside the schools and has a huge affect on so many people. The scars from being bullied may fade, but they are never truly gone. And that’s for those of us who survive the experience. Every time I see reports of bullying, or suicides that have resulted from bullying it brings back those memories of what I experienced.
It saddens me that we have been unable to stamp out bullying yet… So please, LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT!
Don’t let bullying continue by remaining silent!